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Enhancing Working Memory in Children with ADHD: Practical Strategies

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TL;DR — Working memory is essential for learning and daily tasks in children with ADHD. Strengthening this skill involves using visual aids, daily exercises, school accommodations, and consulting professionals. This article provides practical strategies and emphasizes the importance of SEL skills in supporting working memory development.
Family playing a memory game at the dining table, supporting their child's working memory.
📘 Part of our complete guide to Executive Function Skills for Kids with ADHD: A Parent's Guide

Understanding Working Memory

Working memory is a crucial cognitive skill that allows us to hold and manipulate information over short periods. For children, this ability is foundational for tasks such as following instructions, solving problems, and learning new concepts. For kids with ADHD, enhancing working memory can significantly impact their daily functioning and academic success. This article is part of our complete guide to Executive Function Skills for Kids with ADHD: A Parent's Guide.

In my practice, I've seen many parents worry about their child's working memory, particularly when it seems to impact classroom performance. They often ask if there are effective exercises or strategies that can help. It's crucial to understand that working memory is more than just a cognitive function; it's deeply tied to the emotional and social well-being of the child. Children who struggle with working memory might experience frustration or anxiety, impacting their self-esteem and relationships. By supporting their working memory, we not only aid their academic performance but also boost their confidence and social skills.

Child using a visual list on a tablet with parent support.

The Reality of Brain Training Apps

In recent years, brain training apps have surged in popularity, promising to boost cognitive functions like working memory. However, research, including a meta-analysis by Melby-Lervåg and Hulme 2, shows that these apps often offer limited benefits beyond the specific tasks practiced in the app. The improvements rarely transfer to real-world skills that children need.

Parents often express frustration after investing time and money in these apps, only to see minimal gains. It's important to approach these tools with a critical eye and focus on evidence-based methods that truly support children's needs. In practice, I've observed that children engage more effectively with activities that are integrated into their daily lives rather than isolated app exercises.

Alternative Activities

  • Interactive Storytelling: Use storybooks that require children to remember sequences or predict outcomes. This engages their imagination and memory in a fun way.
  • Building Blocks: Games like LEGO or other construction toys can enhance spatial memory as children plan and execute their designs.
  • Cooking Together: Following a recipe requires recalling steps and measuring ingredients, which can be a practical way to boost memory.

External Supports That Help

Instead of solely relying on apps, consider external supports that can make a difference in your child's working memory. Tools such as visual lists and written reminders are practical aids that help children manage tasks and improve recall.

Visual Lists: Creating colorful, engaging lists can help children remember tasks more effectively. For instance, a morning routine chart with pictures can guide a child through getting ready for school without constant reminders.

Written Reminders: Sticky notes or a whiteboard in a common area can serve as gentle prompts for tasks like homework or chores. These tools help reduce cognitive load by providing external reference points.

In my practice, I recommend using these tools as part of a daily routine. For example, one family found success by placing a checklist next to their child's bed. Each night, they reviewed the list together, which not only reinforced memory but also became a bonding time.

Daily Practices That Build Working Memory

Daily exercises can significantly enhance working memory. Engaging activities like matching games and recall exercises are both fun and beneficial.

Matching Games: Games that require matching pairs, like memory cards, encourage children to hold information in their minds while searching for pairs.

Recall Games: Activities where children recount stories or sequences they've heard or read can boost their ability to retain and manipulate information.

Imagine a simple game you can play at dinner: "Let's see who can remember the most items from our grocery list!" This encourages children to practice memory retrieval in a playful context. These activities are not only about memory but also foster self-awareness and responsible decision-making as children learn to strategize and recall.

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School Accommodations That Work

For children with ADHD, specific school accommodations can support working memory challenges effectively. These include:

  • Chunking Information: Breaking down assignments into smaller, manageable parts.
  • Extra Time for Tests: Allowing more time can help children recall and organize information better.
  • Use of Technology: Tools like tablets or computers can aid in organizing tasks and notes.

In my practice, I've seen teachers who incorporate these strategies witness notable improvements in students' engagement and performance. By adapting the learning environment, educators empower students to utilize their strengths and overcome challenges.

Teacher chunking information on the board in a classroom.

When to Consider an OT or Psychologist

If working memory challenges significantly impact your child's daily life, consulting with an occupational therapist (OT) or psychologist can be beneficial. These professionals can provide tailored strategies and interventions.

For example, an OT might work with your child to develop sensory-based strategies that enhance focus and retention, while a psychologist could offer cognitive-behavioral techniques. Working with these specialists can also help children develop self-management skills, which are crucial for long-term success.

Free Download: Working Memory Checklist by Age

To support parents, we've developed a working memory checklist by age. This tool offers age-appropriate strategies and benchmarks to help track your child's progress. Use this checklist as a guide to celebrate small victories and adapt strategies as your child grows.

References

1 Dawson, P. & Guare, R. (2018). Smart but Scattered. Guilford Press.
2 Melby-Lervåg, M. & Hulme, C. (2013). Is working memory training effective? Developmental Psychology.
3 CHADD - Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://chadd.org/
4 Journal of Attention Disorders. Various articles. Retrieved from https://journals.sagepub.com/home/jad

Try It This Week

Reading is the easy part. Skills build through small, repeated practice — here's a low-pressure plan you can try with your child.

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    Create a Visual ChecklistDay 1
    Develop a visual checklist for daily routines to improve task recall and reduce cognitive load.
    👉 What this looks like
    Start with a morning routine checklist. Include images for each task like brushing teeth and getting dressed. Review the checklist with your child each night. It becomes both a memory aid and a bonding exercise.
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    Play a Daily Memory GameDaily, 10 min
    Incorporate a simple memory game into daily activities to boost recall skills.
    👉 What this looks like
    After dinner, play a memory card game with your child. Encourage them to remember card positions and match pairs. This practice reinforces memory skills in a fun, engaging way.
  3. 3
    Engage in Story RecallWeekly
    Ask your child to retell stories to enhance sequencing and memory.
    👉 What this looks like
    After reading a bedtime story, ask your child to recount the main events. Prompt with questions like, 'What happened after the dragon appeared?' This helps them practice sequencing and recalling details.
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    Implement School StrategiesThis week
    Work with teachers to adopt school strategies that support working memory.
    👉 What this looks like
    Meet with your child's teacher to discuss accommodations like chunking assignments or using visual aids in class. These strategies can significantly enhance your child's learning experience.
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    Consult an OT or PsychologistOnce this week
    Seek professional advice if working memory issues persist.
    👉 What this looks like
    Schedule a meeting with an OT to discuss sensory-based strategies for focus and memory. This can provide tailored support for your child's needs.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is working memory?
Working memory is the ability to hold and manipulate information over short periods. It's essential for tasks like following instructions and learning new concepts.
How can I improve my child's working memory?
Use visual aids, daily practice activities, and consider professional support if needed. School accommodations can also aid improvement.
Do brain training apps work for ADHD?
Research suggests they offer limited real-world benefits. Focus on engaging, real-life activities for better results.
When should I consult a professional for working memory issues?
Consider consulting an OT or psychologist if working memory challenges significantly impact daily life and learning.
What role do teachers play in supporting working memory?
Teachers can provide accommodations like chunking information, extra test time, and using technology to aid learning.

References

  1. Dawson, P. & Guare, R. (2018). Smart but Scattered. Guilford Press.
  2. Melby-Lervåg, M. & Hulme, C. (2013). Is working memory training effective? Developmental Psychology.
  3. CHADD - Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://chadd.org/
  4. Journal of Attention Disorders. Various articles. Retrieved from https://journals.sagepub.com/home/jad
Rajini Darugupally, Speech-Language Pathologist
Rajini Darugupally
Speech-Language Pathologist · M.Sc. SLP (AIISH) · 10+ years of clinical experience
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Educational, not medical advice. This article is for informational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical or therapeutic advice. If you have clinical concerns about your child, please talk to your pediatrician, speech-language pathologist, or other qualified professional.