Understanding SEL as Related Services in IEPs: A Comprehensive Guide

This article is part of our complete guide to IEP Goals for SEL: A Parent's Practical Guide (with Examples). Understanding when SEL (Social-Emotional Learning) services are classified as related services within an IEP can significantly impact how these services are implemented and who is responsible for goal-setting. Let's explore this crucial aspect of IEPs.
Related Services Definition under IDEA
Under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), related services are those services required to assist a child with a disability to benefit from special education 1. These services can include speech-language therapy, occupational therapy, and other supportive services like counseling and social work. Understanding the definition and scope of related services is essential for parents and educators alike.
Example: Imagine a child named Lucas who struggles with regulating emotions, which impacts his ability to focus in class. His IEP includes counseling as a related service to support his SEL needs. This service is crucial for his academic success and social integration.
In my practice, I often encounter parents who initially feel overwhelmed by the complex terminology and procedures involved in IEPs. However, by breaking down the components, such as understanding related services, they often feel more empowered to engage in meaningful discussions with educators.

When SEL Goals = Special Education vs Related Services
Determining when SEL goals are considered part of special education or related services can be complex. Typically, if SEL needs directly affect a student's ability to learn and participate in general education, they might be included as related services. This classification affects who writes and monitors these goals, whether it's a special education teacher or a related service provider.
In my practice, I've seen many parents unsure about how SEL services are categorized. Clarity in this area ensures that children receive the appropriate support from the right professionals.
Tip: To differentiate, consider if the SEL goal directly impacts academic performance. If so, it's more likely to be a related service.
Worked Example: Consider Emma, a fifth-grader who has difficulties with peer interactions, which affects her group project participation. Her IEP team determined that her SEL goal to improve social skills should be classified as a related service, allowing the school counselor to provide targeted sessions.
Counseling as a Related Service
Counseling is often provided as a related service in an IEP to address emotional and social challenges that affect learning. School counselors or psychologists typically deliver these services, focusing on helping students develop self-awareness, self-management, and relationship skills.
- Parent: "I'm worried about my child's anxiety affecting his school performance."
- School Counselor: "We can include counseling in his IEP to help him manage his anxiety and improve focus."
Example: Thomas, a student who faces anxiety during group work, benefits from weekly counseling sessions. These sessions help him develop strategies to manage his anxiety, improving his participation in group activities.
Counseling not only aids in academic success but also enhances students' overall well-being by fostering resilience and coping strategies. This dual benefit underscores the importance of integrating counseling into the IEP as a related service.

Social Work Services in School
Social work services in schools provide additional support to students facing social-emotional challenges. School social workers work with students to enhance social awareness and decision-making skills, often collaborating with families and communities.
Example: A school social worker might assist a student like Maya, who struggles with peer relationships, by facilitating peer group sessions to build social skills and empathy.
In my practice, I've observed that social workers play a crucial role in bridging the gap between home and school environments. They help identify external factors affecting a child's performance and work collaboratively to create supportive strategies.
Push-in vs Pull-out for SEL Services
SEL services can be delivered through push-in or pull-out models. Push-in services happen within the general education classroom, promoting inclusion and collaboration. Pull-out services occur outside the classroom, providing a focused environment for targeted support.
Infographic: A visual comparison of push-in vs pull-out models, highlighting key differences and scenarios for each approach.
Example: During a math class, a school counselor pushes in to help a student struggling with self-regulation, allowing them to practice skills in real-time.
These delivery models offer flexibility and can be tailored to meet individual student needs. For some, the integrated approach of push-in services enhances participation, while others benefit from the focused attention provided in pull-out sessions.

Cost Implications for the District (Transparency)
When SEL services are classified as related services, the school district incurs additional costs. These include hiring qualified professionals and possibly expanding service hours. Transparency about these costs is vital to ensure that funds are allocated effectively without compromising on the quality of services provided to students.
In my practice, I’ve seen districts that openly discuss the cost implications with parents foster a stronger partnership, leading to more tailored and effective SEL support.
- Open discussions about funding and resources
- Collaborative planning with parents
- Ensuring equitable access to SEL services for all students
Understanding the financial aspect of SEL services helps in advocating for necessary resources and ensures that all students receive equitable support.
How to Advocate for the Right Service Category
Parents play a crucial role in advocating for the appropriate classification of SEL services in their child's IEP. Understanding the distinction between special education and related services empowers parents to ensure their child receives the necessary support.
Steps to Advocate:
- Educate Yourself: Understand IDEA and related services definitions.
- Communicate Effectively: Collaborate with IEP teams, expressing specific concerns and needs.
- Request Documentation: Obtain a clear explanation of service classifications and decisions.
- Engage Professionals: Seek assistance from advocates or attorneys if needed.
Example: A parent successfully advocated for their child's SEL needs to be categorized as a related service by clearly presenting how these needs affected academic performance.
Advocacy is not just about voicing concerns but also about actively participating in the process to create the best possible educational environment for the child.

References
1 Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, 20 U.S.C. § 1400 et seq.
2 Wrightslaw — special education law authority. Retrieved from wrightslaw.com
3 COPAA — Council of Parent Attorneys and Advocates. Retrieved from copaa.org
Try It This Week
Reading is the easy part. Skills build through small, repeated practice — here's a low-pressure plan you can try with your child.
- 1Learn IEP TerminologyDay 1Familiarize yourself with key IEP terms like related services to better advocate for your child.More on IEP goals →👉 What this looks likeStart by reading about basic IEP terms on a trusted website such as Wrightslaw. Take notes on terms like 'related services' and 'special education'. Discuss these with your partner or another parent to reinforce understanding.
- 2Discuss SEL Needs with TeacherDay 2Have a conversation with your child's teacher about their SEL needs to ensure they're addressed in school.Read about SEL in schools →👉 What this looks likeEmail your child's teacher to schedule a brief meeting. Discuss specific SEL challenges your child faces, like making friends or managing frustration. Ask how these are currently supported in class and if adjustments are possible.
- 3Observe SEL in ActionThis weekAttend a class session or activity where SEL skills are practiced to understand how they are integrated into your child's education.👉 What this looks likeAttend a school event like a class play or sports day. Observe how SEL skills such as teamwork and communication are encouraged. Look for signs of SEL support, like a teacher helping a student resolve a conflict.
- 4Role-Play AdvocacyWeekendPractice advocating for SEL services by role-playing scenarios with a friend or partner.👉 What this looks likeWith a friend, role-play a meeting with an IEP team. Practice expressing your child's SEL needs and discussing how they impact their school performance. Use specific examples from past situations to illustrate your points.
- 5Review IEP DocumentationOnce this weekGo through your child's IEP to check how SEL services are documented and classified.IEP documentation tips →👉 What this looks likeSet aside time to review each section of your child's IEP. Pay special attention to how SEL services are listed. Note any areas that seem unclear or incomplete, preparing questions for the next IEP meeting.
